After few years of relationship your love life loses the spice and flavor of initial romance and love. Both the hearts long to get feel the initial magic of love but with time things changes. I am sure you are also carving for the same spice in your love life. Let's check out how you can fall in love again and again with the same partner.
Meet for a date: After marriage also couples should never forget the crazy lover inside. Do behave like a teenager lovers and meet up for a date. Get a gift for your partner that reminds her or him of old days of your relationship. Get Nostalgic and spend a beautiful romantic evening under an open sky, experience the fragrance of natural flowers and create a magic through candle light. Don't go by traditional things, play with your imagination and get the old charm of love back to your relationship.
- Share your Fantasy: Speak to your partner regarding your fantasies and desire. I am sure your lover will be so happy to talk something apart from children , finance and career. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way.
Be Romantic: You must understand that kissing, hugging and demonstrative shows of affection are not required only when you're in bed. Pull your partner aside any time through the day, for a hug or a full-on smooch.
- Have fun, play games: Along with the routines and pressures of everyday life, things have probably become a tad serious. It's about time you loosened up and had some fun. And that includes the time when you're with your partner alone. So if you think your love life have become boring and colorless, then you really need to make it more exciting and fun. Find ways to giggle together and things to laugh about even when you're in bed. Sharing a naughty joke, tickling each other silly or try playing any game may be strip poker, you got to enjoy even if you lose the game.
- Experiments: Don't be afraid to experiment. If your partner would like to get a little kinky (as long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable) or give some sex toys a try, go with the flow. You might surprise yourself and find you like it. If things have become predictable and you never have sex unless it's the last thing at night, jog the system a bit. Try during the noon on a weekend, or wake up a little earlier and lure your spouse into the shower.
- Interior of your bed room: Pamper yourself and your environment. Work together to make a beautiful, loving space for your love making time. It might only require rearranging furniture in your bedroom or other intimate space, getting rid of clutter helps. A passionate music can ignite passion for both of you. Candle light and fragrance of roses can convert a boring room to a romantic atmosphere. A little effort which in return could get that spark started again from the memories to kick-start the old libido.
- Get her flowers or cook her favorite food: when you come back home get some flower for your beloved and attach a small romantic note with it. Prepare your partner's favorite food and surprise them. Place an ‘I love you' placard in his briefcase so he sees it and thinks of you as soon as he opens it up. Call each other up during the day, even if it's only for a couple of minutes, or leave cute messages on the voice mail.
Don't Ignore: Don't be be lazy and postpone doing something special to make your spouse feel a little happy. And never be selfish and only be a taker, give as much and more than the measure in which you receive. Don't assume too much that you know exactly what turns your partner on, ask occasionally if you can do something different and you might be surprised by the answer. Don't be guilty or be prudish or have preconceived notions of what's right or wrong. If you are okay with it, do it, don't wait till the end of the day when you're too tired and all you can think of is sleep.- Spend alone together: Make an effort to spend some time alone together. Don't feel bad about taking the occasional break without the kids along or enjoying some quiet time together. Take an initiative to celebrate special moments that you used to do during the initial time of your relationship. Take a little trouble to look good and stay fit. If we feel good about our bodies, it translates into a better performance in the bedroom too!
- Pamper yourselves: It's also time for a little self-gratification. Give each other a massage . This will leave you feeling relaxed. When she's sick, take care of her just like she treats you when you're sick. Take over the household tasks and don't let her get out of bed if you can help it. Rejuvenate your mind by joining yoga classes or dance to each other's tune by enrolling in a salsa or ballroom dancing class.
Never mind how old is your relationship, always try to spice it up with small gestures and never let die the child inside you. Undoubtedly, relationships constantly change and if you keep doing the same stuffs it will be boring. So be interesting, imaginative and fill your life with the spice of love and romance.(Sources: ezinearticles.com, futurescopes.com)
Meet for a date: After marriage also couples should never forget the crazy lover inside. Do behave like a teenager lovers and meet up for a date. Get a gift for your partner that reminds her or him of old days of your relationship. Get Nostalgic and spend a beautiful romantic evening under an open sky, experience the fragrance of natural flowers and create a magic through candle light. Don't go by traditional things, play with your imagination and get the old charm of love back to your relationship.Share your Fantasy: Speak to your partner regarding your fantasies and desire. I am sure your lover will be so happy to talk something apart from children , finance and career. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way. When you share your desires for love-making with your lover, find a time when you are alone and distractions such as the computer or television are out of the way.
Be Romantic: You must understand that kissing, hugging and demonstrative shows of affection are not required only when you're in bed. Pull your partner aside any time through the day, for a hug or a full-on smooch.Have fun, play games: Along with the routines and pressures of everyday life, things have probably become a tad serious. It's about time you loosened up and had some fun. And that includes the time when you're with your partner alone. So if you think your love life have become boring and colorless, then you really need to make it more exciting and fun. Find ways to giggle together and things to laugh about even when you're in bed. Sharing a naughty joke, tickling each other silly or try playing any game may be strip poker, you got to enjoy even if you lose the game.
Experiments: Don't be afraid to experiment. If your partner would like to get a little kinky (as long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable) or give some sex toys a try, go with the flow. You might surprise yourself and find you like it. If things have become predictable and you never have sex unless it's the last thing at night, jog the system a bit. Try during the noon on a weekend, or wake up a little earlier and lure your spouse into the shower.
Interior of your bed room: Pamper yourself and your environment. Work together to make a beautiful, loving space for your love making time. It might only require rearranging furniture in your bedroom or other intimate space, getting rid of clutter helps. A passionate music can ignite passion for both of you. Candle light and fragrance of roses can convert a boring room to a romantic atmosphere. A little effort which in return could get that spark started again from the memories to kick-start the old libido.
Get her flowers or cook her favorite food: when you come back home get some flower for your beloved and attach a small romantic note with it. Prepare your partner's favorite food and surprise them. Place an ‘I love you' placard in his briefcase so he sees it and thinks of you as soon as he opens it up. Call each other up during the day, even if it's only for a couple of minutes, or leave cute messages on the voice mail.
Don't Ignore: Don't be be lazy and postpone doing something special to make your spouse feel a little happy. And never be selfish and only be a taker, give as much and more than the measure in which you receive. Don't assume too much that you know exactly what turns your partner on, ask occasionally if you can do something different and you might be surprised by the answer. Don't be guilty or be prudish or have preconceived notions of what's right or wrong. If you are okay with it, do it, don't wait till the end of the day when you're too tired and all you can think of is sleep.Spend alone together: Make an effort to spend some time alone together. Don't feel bad about taking the occasional break without the kids along or enjoying some quiet time together. Take an initiative to celebrate special moments that you used to do during the initial time of your relationship. Take a little trouble to look good and stay fit. If we feel good about our bodies, it translates into a better performance in the bedroom too!
Pamper yourselves: It's also time for a little self-gratification. Give each other a massage . This will leave you feeling relaxed. When she's sick, take care of her just like she treats you when you're sick. Take over the household tasks and don't let her get out of bed if you can help it. Rejuvenate your mind by joining yoga classes or dance to each other's tune by enrolling in a salsa or ballroom dancing class.
